Hell, I don't mind people on here knowing the answers...
a. Between 14 and 18 then a looooooong gap until I got to 40, and two years since then to now, so six years with twenty-two year denial period,
b. My partner doesn't know I cross dress. My best friend since I was 3 years old knows I cross-dressed in my teens, but doesn't know I've started up again. He was cool with it then, but I don't know how he'd feel about it now.
c. I went out dressed 3 times in my teens. I've not been out since, due to me now looking more masculine.
d. I love gypsy skirts and mid-thigh dresses. I also love heels.
e. I've never worn a wedding dress. I've never had the opportunity. I'd need to lose another couple of inches to put on my wife's...she was a 12 when we married (size, not age, this isn't Alabama...), and I'm a 14/16 borderline.
f. I would wear nothing but femme clothing if I could. I would have a big bonfire of my male clothing.
g. I don't see myself as more female than male, or more male than female. I'm just me. Debbie and Iain are two sides of me. It took a long time to realise that. When I'm Iain, Debbie is always there, when I'm Debbie, Iain is somewhere in the background. Although: When I'm Debbie, Iain is a lot more distant than Debbie is when I'm Iain...if that makes any sense?
h. My male side is straight, my female side is gay...
- I prefer the way women look. Men (my male self included) are not attractive to me.