I wish I had narrow shoulders and that I was slimmer.
I am working hard on the slimming bit. I need to.
But regarding the shoulders, there are a few ways I work round that. One, I love wearing calf length coats (only with a dress or skirt (and heels), and I find that if that line at the end of my shoulders is carried straight down to the coat's hem, then it gives the illusion of having a woman's shoulders.
I've been cross dressing all my life...it's very much part of me. And I don't give a damn who knows! Haha.