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Re: Long line bra.

Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2016 9:08 pm
by Karen1950
DebbieT wrote:Transparency and honesty are vital.

Glad to hear you would never cheat! That means your wife has found a good one, who just happens to be on the trans spectrum. It doesn't make you bad, you shouldn't feel ashamed. It's part of who you are. Embrace it.


Way to go

Re: Long line bra.

Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2016 8:51 pm
by Sara.G
I don't think that when giving advice that the phrase "honesty is the best policy" can be repeated too much. If you are in a relationship and either want to come out or think you have been caught out then being honest may certainly cause heated discussion but I would always say that this is preferable to being suspected of far worse than wearing female clothing.

In all honesty, if faced with the situation where you have to front up to being a crossdresser or on the trans spectrum rather than being branded an adulterer or worse then the former gets my vote every time. At worst your gf/partner/wife will end the relationship, however most will at least talk and attempt to understand why.

The ideal situation is to avoid this by being totally honest and discussing the matter in an adult fashion.